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Parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds: come here to share the technicolour, the vividness, the despair, the heart-broken-open, the compassion we learn for others, having been through this mess — and see it reflected back at you, acknowledged and understood.

Thanks to photographer Xin Li and to artist Stephanie Sicore for their respective illustrations and photos.

ttc | pregnancy | birth after loss > Vivien is here!

Just wanted to update everyone that Vivien Anrai ("Anrai" is gaelic for "Henry" and pronounced "on-REE") arrived safe and sound via c-section this morning. She's figuring out nursing and I'm beyond exhausted but we're elated, so very very happy and relieved. She's tiny at just 19" and 7lbs 11oz, and we adore every little bit of her. thank you all so much for your prayers and support!
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterMindy
So happy to hear she's safely here. And I love the name. Hope she figures out nursing soon and your recovery goes smoothly.

Maddie x
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterMaddie
So pleased to read this Mindy. You've chosen a beautiful name for your little girl. x
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterCatherine W
Congratulations, Mindy!! I am so happy and relieved for you. Enjoy that sweet baby girl of yours!
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterSteph
Congratulations. I am so happy to hear that the c-section went smoothly and that Vivien is here safe and sound. I am blown away by her name ... absolutely beautiful. Love to you and your family.
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered Commentergmh217
Hurrah! Happy Birthday Vivien!

What a perfect and beautiful name. I'm so glad to read this update.

Much love to your family,
Sarah
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterSarah H
So, so happy and relieved to hear your good news. Welcome Vivien!

Lots of love to you and your family, Mindy.
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered Commentereliza
Oh Mindy, I'm so very happy Vivien Anrai is here, what a beautiful name. You have been in my thoughts, and will continue to be. So much love to you. x
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterJeanette
Beautiful name. So happy everything went well.
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterAngela
Mindy, what wonderful news. And what a fabulous way to honor Henry. Welcome to the world Vivien!
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterCara
Oh Mindy congratulations!!! I am so happy and relieved baby Vivien is here safely. Your tribute to Henry I just so perfect and beautiful. Loads of love to you!
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered Commenterpaula
Welcome, Vivien! Beautiful name. Congratulations, Mindy!
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterMonique
Congratulations, Mindy! I am so relieved that she is here and safe. Lots of love to you and your family!
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterKathryn
Ahh, I am SO happy for you and your family!
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterRebecca
Thank you so much mamas, we are still at the hospital, hoping to leave tomorrow and get home. It's still so surreal, but wonderful. I feel like Henry was with me as she was born in the OR, had an intense bout of sobbing after they pulled her out, but it felt like a good thing, like a release. Thank you all for the well wishes. My love to each of you...
July 21, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterMindy
Mindy, well done girl, you made it.. Vivien made it.. just fantastic, fantastic news.

Remembering Henry as you forge your new existence as a changed family.. and I wish you first and foremost, rest and peace.. after that, years ahead packed with sweet moments of wonder and joy!

Love to you and yours on this beautiful day. xxx
July 22, 2010 | Unregistered Commentermoops
Congrats! These are wonderful news! Beautiful name you chose for your little girl.
July 22, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterFrancisca
i'm glad she arrived safely. well done mindy!
x
July 22, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterB
That's wonderful news, and what a beautiful name! I'm so happy for you, Mindy. Give that beautiful girl lots of kisses from all of us.
July 23, 2010 | Unregistered Commenterjen
What great news, Mindy! And such a beautiful name for your girl Vivien Anrai.
July 23, 2010 | Unregistered Commenterrachel
Mindy,
I am glad for you.
July 23, 2010 | Unregistered Commenterdiana