My two year old (26 months) needs extensive dental care. I feel horrible. She never drinks juice, so it could only be the overnight breastfeeding. I really feel horrible because now they need put her under so they can work on her teeth. I can't even bring myself to outline here what they need to do - I'm just so ashamed. I did hear that overnight breastfeeding could be bad, but I did not think it would be this bad. I thought I was doing her good - comforting her and giving her nourishment. Sorry to sound so hard on myself, but I need to let out some of my self hatred right now. I hope you understand.

Please don't feel horrible - teeth issues could also be genetic, or related to something other than breastfeeding. Many hugs.

Anna, please don't beat yourself up over this. I know lots of people who have done extended night time feeding and no harm has come to their babies teeth. I believe there are other factors here. You did wonderfully to feed her for so long x

Please try to be gentle on yourself. My son had his first set of xrays at 4 and they discovered that he had 8 cavities. I was so upset and felt like I had failed him, but I had to remind myself that he barely ate junk and I was pretty careful with his brushing and flossing. Some kids are more prone to dental problems. xo