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Parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds: come here to share the technicolour, the vividness, the despair, the heart-broken-open, the compassion we learn for others, having been through this mess — and see it reflected back at you, acknowledged and understood.

Thanks to photographer Xin Li and to artist Stephanie Sicore for their respective illustrations and photos.

parenting after loss > Children's books regarding loss

Anybody know of a good children's book that discusses "angels", heaven or addresses sibling loss. My first son passed away at two weeks old and I want to find something that we can read to our younger children and have it relate to their older brother..
August 18, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterAsh
Here's one we have that we've read once to our "rainbow" daughter. We lost our firstborn, a girl in 2010, and then had her little sister in March, 2013. I've only been able to read it once so far, and even then, I cried through some of it.

Someone Came Before You - http://www.amazon.com/Someone-Came-Before-You-Schwiebert/dp/0972424156/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1408381190&sr=1-1&keywords=someone+came+before+you
August 18, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterMandyS
Thank you! I just ordered it in amazon.. Will be a hard read in sure, but it looks exactly like what I was looking for.
August 18, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterAsh
Michael Rosen's Sad Book is beautiful. His son died at age 18 and this children's book is all about what grief looks like. It has a lot of dark, hard topics in its pages. Some might find it too adult for kids but we read it to our two, now three year old.
August 18, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterBrianna
A friend gave us Heaven is for Real For Kids. We never read the grown up one, but in this one their tale boy meets his older sister in Heaven, (who he didn't even know about until then). Our five year old daughter started reading this book when she was three or four. We pulled it out for her when she was going through a particularly hard patch grieving her younger sister. She finds it enormously comforting, and asks for it when she needs it.

She also likes "I have a sister in heaven" by Toni Tattis,

Love to you,
Jen (AdiaRose and Baby Leaf's mom)
August 18, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterJen
The other elated ones she likes are "Jubilee" illustrated by Tim Ladwig and a book called "Angel in the Waters" and " The Mountains of Tibet" which is Buddhist and about reincarnation.

Love,
Again :)
Jen
August 18, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterJen
We have "We were gonna have a baby but we had an angel instead" http://www.amazon.com/Were-Gonna-Have-Angel-Instead/dp/0972424113

I have to say I don't really know how I feel about it. I don't love it but some people do.
August 18, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterShelby's Mum
The invisible string is my very "favorite." I find it beautiful and palatable for children of young ages. It's not solely focused upon sibling or baby death. But it works for sure.
August 22, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterAnnie