Today, Rhys would be one. His big sister and brother would sing him happy birthday, and we would watch him enjoy his first bit of cake.

I think we will still do that, even without him here. I know that my husband and I want to remember him today, and I think my living children would enjoy remembering him in celebration.

Now, if I could just stop crying.

I'm sorry, Minna. My Charlotte's first birthday was seven weeks ago. I know it hurts so bad. Remembering your Rhys today, and wishing comfort and peace for you and your family. XX

Happy Birthday Rhys. Thinking of you Minna. I know. We all do...

Happy Birthday, sweet Rhys. He and my Ellis share a birthday. I hope that today has been gentle on you and that you find a little peace. You've done what seemed impossible in those first dark days - you have survived a year. I know that Rhys is proud of his strong mama.

Sending both of you love,

Emma

Minna, I'm coming into this late - a belated happy birthday to Rhys. I hope moments of the day were gentle on you.

Much love - annie