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Parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds: come here to share the technicolour, the vividness, the despair, the heart-broken-open, the compassion we learn for others, having been through this mess — and see it reflected back at you, acknowledged and understood.

Thanks to photographer Xin Li and to artist Stephanie Sicore for their respective illustrations and photos.

for one and all > He would have been five today

My son would have been five today. It was a busy day with work, but I managed to bake his birthday cake. I thought I was calm, but when I put the candles onto the cake, one by one, I broke into tears.
My grief is not as raw anymore as it used to be, but the anniversary of his birth and death is still hard.
I’m glad I can come to this place.
March 17, 2021 | Unregistered CommenterArav‘s Mom
Happy belated birthday, Arav. Thinking of you and your loving mum.
Sending much love to you both.
March 18, 2021 | Unregistered CommenterGaby
And still you baked the cake. To think of all the years in front of us (all of us) ... so many cakes. So many candles. So many tears.

I see you, Arav`s Mom, and I think of your little boy.
March 19, 2021 | Unregistered CommenterAnd L., too
Missing your Arav with you today. Sending peace and love.
March 19, 2021 | Unregistered CommenterAB