I need help. I'm struggling w the loss of my baby. With no warning I miscarried my almost 14 week baby. The pain is unbearable. I am completely alone and I'm not doing well at all. Nothing helps.

Hi Jen,

You are not alone. I lost my baby a day after he was born at 27 weeks. It is hard. I cried non stop for weeks and even now 6 months later there are days when the wave of grief overcomes and overwhelms me. There are no words that will make it okay. But we are tough, just remember that. It may not seem like it but we are. Reach out to your love ones. I'm still learning but I'm trying. Come here and vent if you have to. You are in good company here. I still do especially when I feel alone.

I'm sorry you have to go through this. I wish we can still hold our babies.

Hi Jen!
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I’ve lost my baby too in August, at 13 weeks, a few months after losing my first in February.
I still feel heartbroken sometimes, especially in days like today, where I saw friends of mine I hadn’t seen for almost a year being happily pregnant right at the point I’d have been now too.
Still can’t prevent asking myself “why me?”.
I’m glad I’ve found this place, let’s try not to lose hope!
Xxx